已经两个礼拜了，可楹还是不要她服务。吃饭，冲凉，更换尿片都不要她。试过让女佣为她冲凉，她就发脾气，乱哭一场，好像被人虐待似的。难为了家婆没得好好休息，得来服侍这个小公主。我和老公都忙着生意，我们是决定暂时把office job 带回家，但是还是不方便，太多文件在公司，有时又得收货。试过有一天在家，可楹可以粘着我一整天，好像寄生虫似的。
昨天女佣向我说她的胸部有肿瘤，还有两边的armpit也有。我在想该不会是乳癌吧!经过医生的诊断，发现胸部有1cm大的肿瘤，就建议去SATA do mamogramm. 天呀！希望不是吧！换女佣是事小，是可怜她还得扛起家里的生活费。唉！
Friday, October 12, 2007
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your new maid really very pitiful! try to comfort her until the result is out, she must be even more worried and scared than anyone! Thought they have to checkup before coming? But if she really has, what to do? she has to go back? Heard that if she go back because of illness, she still need to "repay" the loan (most of them have loan to come here)...Hui Fen, try to help her if you can, i really pity her).
1 suggestion is to let the maid give keying things/food that she likes WITHOUT condition, that is, don't say give her only if she call your maid or be with your maid,etc, slowly keying will like her...children are like that one...don't worry.
我很同情她，希望她吉人天相。
hi,
Hope everything is fine for ur maid.
As for ur daughter, she need time to get used to ur maid. ya..once u are at home, ur baby sure to stick at you all times..be patient.
Take care and cheers..
Hi Hui Fen
Pray that your maid result is not serious. and hope you can endure and perservance, I been through this stage too. Jagging between work and home and children.
But take care and think positive. :)
hi 惠芬﹐
哎喲~~~ 真的是好為難耶﹗
妳的女佣來新加坡以前﹐沒有做 medical checkup 嗎﹖ 應該是會檢查到才對啊﹗
惠芬啊，小孩是这样的啦，我NaNa P5了，Sherell Sec3 了，还是很粘我。这也是一种幸福，因为如果到了一天他们长大了，不再粘我们时，我们就会希望他们还是以前一直粘住我们的那个宝贝孩子。
你的佣人很可怜， 离乡背井, 离开自己的孩子，到这里工作，却这么不幸，希望她能大步跨过。
God Bless all of You
Anonymous,
Thanks for your advise. We will try what we can do for her.
Eileen,
希望吧!
Sally,
Yes, if my hubby & I not around, she will stick with grandmother.
Mabel,
Thanks a lot. Yes, work, home & children are hardly to give up either one.
Nicole,
她有做medical check-up, 但是也不过普通的check-up罢了吧！
Shirly,
对呀！所以我很enjoy被女儿粘，哈哈！
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