好久没在blog写日记了。都在忙着工作,好累哦!旧女佣回去了,而可楹还是拒绝新女佣。谢谢Margaret & Oink Oink 的提议。一旦她发现我们不在她视线范围时,她就会开始哭闹和寻找我们了。我们尽量让女佣陪她玩,需要时间吧!最起码现在可楹不怕靠近女佣,只是还不接受她。因为这样我决定下个星期在家陪她几天,要不然可楹一直缠着阿Ma也不是办法,家婆的健康不是很好,所以得把工作带回家。
新女佣是一个寡妇,丈夫去年因为心脏病而去世了。她好瘦哦!同相片不一样,她是因为丈夫去世而肖瘦,也因为这样她得出来工作养三个孩子。
我们活着就是为了生活,要珍惜我们所拥有的一切。
Saturday, October 6, 2007
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Posted by 惠芬的世界 at 10/06/2007 01:11:00 PM
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Hi HuiFen,Your new maid is pitiful. she must be crying everyday. lost husband and have to leave home...what kind of life one has to lead :(
How big is her three children?
你的新女佣很可怜,为了生活离乡背景。她应该很年轻吧?孩子多大?
如果有能力的話﹐相信她也不會想要離鄉背井的。
慢慢來吧﹐小孩要適應一個陌生人士要點時間的﹐相信很快可楹就會喜歡新的女佣的。
Anonymous,
Yap, when she is free, she will cry, almost everyday. She miss her children, I understand her feeling.
Sharon & Eileen,
She has 2 boys and 1 gilr, 10,9 & 7 yr old. she is 34 years old, same age with me.
Nicole,
希望可楹会尽快接受她咯。
Huifen,
If she homesick, very jialat lor, good luck to u.
:-D
Hui Fen
I have maid and I know your feeling too. if you get a good one, it is your lucky, if you get a bad one, she will give a big headache, right? Anyway, good luck and be patient.
Hi 惠芳
看来你得慢慢开导你的女佣,既然决定出国谋生,就要尽量做好做好自己工作,尽量不要无时无刻的想家,那样她会很辛苦的,日子会很难过的。我们也要给新的女佣时间适应,不能超之过急,不要那么快否定她,因为她们也需要时间调试环境,认识新的雇主和要求,尤其是第一次出国工作者,需要更长的时间适应融入我们的生活。总而言之,是不容易啊。。。不过要记得初期的培训很重要,否则她习惯了,会很难改的。
HuiFen ah, just hope your new maid will get use to the life here with all of you. Times will cure and hope she can forget the past and look forward to the future, life still has to go on...
But now, 'xin ku ni le'
Take care
Hi Hui Fen, I am the anonymous who leave the 1st comment. She is really pitiful. If you can show her concern and understandings, she will be able to adapt more faster and easier, agree? I believe you are a friendly lady boss. try not to scold her because that will make her more sad and miss home more.
Oink Oink,Joanne, Margaret, Shirly & Anonymous 7:23pm,
Many thanks to all of you. So far she is doing well, nothing to complain. I also told her, housework are never been finished in one day, ask her to has rest & watch TV with us. I'm not worry about the house keeping, only my daughter.
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